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I Love Being The Perfect Wife.

I’m constantly told by my peers and colleagues, especially the female ones, that I am not like them. They tell me I am from their mothers’ and sometimes grandmothers’ eras. Some snippets from my daily conversations with my friends include: “Wow, your husband must adore you”. He does. “You are too sweet. You make him chai every day?” Yes, I do. I…

My Family Accepted My Brother’s Caucasian Wife. They Gave Me a Hard Time for Dating a Caucasian Man.

The day my brother first introduced Linda to my Bangladeshi parents, I remember my mother anxiously jittering around the living room before their arrival, making sure every little aspect of the house was how she wanted it to appear. The table was set elegantly with her finest china. Halwas were thinly sliced in perfect geometric symmetry. The sweet scent of freshly fried…

Life As A Crypto-Holic

Like so many others my life was upended during the pandemic. I was an international university student living in California and when the pandemic hit. I was just about to graduate. Unlike so many other international students who went back to their home countries after the universities allowed students to take online courses, I was not able to go back to my…